{"id":2297,"date":"2025-01-22T16:19:40","date_gmt":"2025-01-22T16:19:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.swanseawriterscircle.co.uk\/blog\/?p=2297"},"modified":"2025-01-22T16:19:46","modified_gmt":"2025-01-22T16:19:46","slug":"point-of-no-return","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.swanseawriterscircle.co.uk\/blog\/point-of-no-return\/2297\/","title":{"rendered":"Point of no return"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>There was never any question of a reconciliation.&nbsp; There hadn\u2019t been a dramatic rift, just a dwindling, eroding sense of partnership. What remained was an exchange of items and after that, their disentanglement : all that had been done was to be finally undone in this ritual handover.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The separation had been efficiently accomplished. The flat was on the market &nbsp;and new living arrangements were in place. Guy and Freya showed no animosity, indeed they intended to remain on friendly terms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018 I found some papers of yours in with my stuff. Pay-slips, P60s, that kind of thing. Didn\u2019t want to throw them away in case you needed them.\u2019 Guy handed over a slim file.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Thanks. Most of it\u2019s online but I\u2019ll shred them at work.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Oh and I\u2019ve got some music and DVDs we bought. Out of date tech, but I still regret getting rid of my vinyls, so you might want to look through them and decide.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Freya flicked through the plastic cases, \u2018It\u2019s funny how our tastes changed isn\u2019t it? I\u2019ll bet some of these come back as vintage in time, still, can\u2019t hang onto everything.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Indeed not, although the photos to be shared out brought a few tears to Freya\u2019s eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Are you OK? You do look a bit pale. Maybe a glass of wine. I remembered to bring the booze but nothing to drink it from. Have to take turns swigging it from the bottle.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Reminds me when we went camping without a tin opener,\u2019&nbsp; Freya looked through the photos and found evidence of the&nbsp; camping holiday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Well, at least I remembered the tent pegs.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Yes, but not the mallet,\u2019 Freya was smiling now. \u2018We did have some good times though, didn\u2019t we?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They chatted over the remaining things to be divvied up, then Freya did a deep dive into her bag and eventually came up with a small box.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018I think I should return this because it belonged to your mother and you may need it in future.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Freya, I gave the ring to you and I want you to have it. It\u2019s yours.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>More tears leaked from Freya\u2019s reddened eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018It\u2019s tough isn\u2019t it, each claiming what we once owned together?\u2019&nbsp; Guy was getting a bit tearful too but took a deep breath. \u2018So is that everything shared out? Are we good to go?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Yes\u2019 Freya said, \u2018except there\u2019s one thing which you may not want to share. I couldn\u2019t decide whether to tell you or not, and I don\u2019t want you to feel bound by it, but the last thing we made together is just&nbsp; 16 weeks old and it would be great if you wanted a part of that. 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